In that case...

So what remains is a final decision about a) whether or not we really want to commit to this, b) whether we really are able to pool enough resources, and c)what size a pile of beans each household could supply.

Regarding C, the McGinnuess household comes in with the
first bid at $75-100
David & Brooke:
Debbi & Aram: $150-200
Mom & Dad:

About Michael's wedding

I know this is not exactly imminent, but because of the amount of money involve it is worthwhile to be having this conversation ahead of time.

Based on the emails I have received back from you all following the informational email, a few topics surface for discussion:
1. Is this something we all value enough to put up the money for? Is sending a delegate the best way to use our resources to show support for Michael, Novia and the family?
2. I understand that Elli (and John) do not feel able to commit to this right now. That is, to Elli going. If we decide we want to spend the money for this, how will we go about deciding between David, myself, and one of the parents?
3. If we did send someone, what percentage of the price tag would the family pick up?

Again, the dates are May 15-20, the cost is between $700-$900.